Charlotte Ostermann

I write, speak, invest, network, and question to stimulate fruitful conversation. Let's talk about human flourishing! It begins with freedom. Holy leisure is the key to human being, freedom and generativity.  Please join me in the adventure of realizing Christ!

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SAW 13: Leisure vs Work

Describe the work you do.

I’m a homemaker – logistics, meals, hospitality, housekeeping, financial management, shopping, errands, transportation for a household of six. I’m a mom – raising and homeschooling and loving and conversing with and praying for the kids. I’m a blogger, writer, website manager, non-profit director, marketer, singer and speaker.

What training, credentials, ongoing investment, physical capabilities and skills does your work demand?

For most of this, the training has been on-the-job, learn as you go. I have some background in business management and non-profit organization management. I need communication skills, lots of patience, systems thinking skill, creativity and, thankfully, not a great deal of physical stamina. More than ‘skills,’ wisdom and maturity are needed. I’ve had to learn more than I ever wanted to know about using the computer, dealing with websites, social media, e-newsletters, and PowerPoint (but I’m glad I learned it!).

Does your daily work correspond to a vocation from God?

Completely.

What things besides your work are parts of your identity?

My friendships and creative projects are huge aspects of the ‘whole me’. My dreams and aspirations, my songs and poetry, my ‘life narrative’ of pain, struggle, joy, defeat and triumph, also.

How do you typically spend Sundays?

  • Coffee and the NYT crossword puzzle
  • Mass
  • Brunch
  • Loooooong nap with prayer, journaling, reading, contemplation, poetry (and some sleep!)
  • Easy-going standard dinner: basically, roast chickens, potatoes, veggies
  • Hanging out in family space
  • Evening or night prayer
  • Bedtime
  • Maybe a walk about outside if the weather is nice, during the day

Describe ‘holy leisure,’ or ‘keeping Sabbath’.

The release of acting for being acted upon, of doing for just being; of moving for being still. Holy leisure: being at home with myself because Christ is present in me. Sabbath-keeping: dropping everything possible to move toward Christ in freedom.

What ‘work’ are you doing on yourself to become more ‘you,’ or to improve ‘you’?

I’m trying to fast regularly (for weight loss and for spiritual discipline). I read a lot as intellectual work, and try to respond to whatever I read in some form. I’m trying to move out of my comfort zone and take new risks with creative challenges.

Describe how your life is ‘in balance,’ or not.

I love the balance of my life – the proportions of work and rest, alone and family and public time, creative and practical activity, sacred and secular focus. I feel a resilience in the balance – there is not one element that could suddenly throw off the whole equilibrium.

Describe how your daily work is/is not satisfying.

I love being in the flow of creative work. I enjoy the challenge of meeting new demands, and of putting my thoughts into new formats. I am sometimes daunted by a new learning curve, and feel impotent and frustrated by technological malfunctions. I do not enjoy the task of marketing my work, and find email communication unsatisfying to the extent people do not respond. I love together-time with the family, but as the kids get older, there is less and less of it. I am not as fond of managing them (Do your chores. It’s your laundry day. Get the dishes done before leaving.) as I am of just talking and laughing around the dinner table together.

What are the top 10 things you’d do if you were completely free?

If, by ‘completely free’ we mean that I have sufficient time and money, I’d:

1.  Take an unhurried tour of all Gaudi’s major works

2.  Get a master’s degree from the School of the Annunciation in England

3.  Pull together a dream team to produce my “What About Gaudi?” exhibit

4.  Have an enclosed, no-chlorine swimming pool built by my house

Well, I could go on and on with ways to spend money. But what if ‘free’ just means ‘free time’? Then I’ll:

5.  Learn Spanish, French, German and Italian

6.  Learn to play the piano and the cello

7.  Do the collaborative creative projects I have in mind

But, again, that’s just magical thinking, as there’s much less time available than would be needed for even one language, instrument, or project. What if ‘free’ just meant ‘uninhibited’?

8.  Do a public poetry recital

9.  Give the archbishop a month or two of full-time work…whatever he needs done.

10. Wear crazy-fun, over-the-top clothing in public.

There! Now, what would you do?

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Building the Bridge

This is my most-requested audio – about how we can educate our children well, despite our own inadequacies. The Problem – We must get kids from where they are, to where they need to be; from ‘uneducated’ to ‘educated’. Given the poverty of our own education, we feel asked to do the impossible: build a […]

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Putting Down Sabbath Roots

Some audiences want to cut right to the chase: “Give us practical applications of all your ideas about Sabbath-keeping.” OK – here you go: In this talk I do just that – give concrete, practical ways to dip into the kind of leisure that brings  interior equanimity and leaves you more whole, more human, more […]

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Women on the Way to Healing

I prepared this talk for the Heart of a Woman group, in Kansas City, shortly after the suicide of a Catholic mother of ten. It was a shock to me, but not entirely unexpected, as I had known her during the years she struggled with depression and disintegration, despite her devotion to the Church, Christ, […]

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High Resolution Beauty

For an Apostles of the Interior Life Women’s Retreat, where the theme was “The King Desires Your Beauty,”  I prepared this truly interesting talk. Will you believe me when I say that this is another of my favorites?!?! I know, I’ve said that about a  lot of these talks, but revisiting them to give a […]

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Sabbath is a Woman

I once asked a friend who calls herself a Jewish-Catholic if it had been hard for her to accept Mary’s role in Salvation History. She laughed and said, “Heck no! Every Sabbath was begun by a Jewish mama’s prayers! I’d have been suspicious if Lord Sabbaoth hadn’t come through a woman.” Jewish women welcomed Sabbath […]

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The Veiled Self

Differences between the original myth of Cupid and Psyche, and C.S. Lewis’ retelling of the myth in Till We Have Faces have the effect of revealing new dimensionality in the Christian understanding of both myth and of the human person. The pre-Christian myth, like the pre-Christian person, is veiled in a darkness that constitutes a […]

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About a Landscape

In “Stour Valley and Dedham Church”  Constable has painted the Vale of Dedham – a familiar and beloved area of his native England.

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A Merry Drinker

 “The Merry Drinker,” by Frans Hals This is a portrait of an unnamed man, called in the title only ‘a merry drinker’.

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A Wedding Feast

Giotto’s painting, The Wedding Feast at Cana, portrays the literal and spiritual senses of this story.

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St. Francis Altar

Berlinghieri’s St. Francis  appears behind the altar of San Francesco in Pescia, Italy. It is an excellent example of art ordered to divine worship.

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A is for Atmosphere

A mom is the caretaker of a huge, wonderful, potentially beautiful, critically important place! She, herself, this actual, unique person, is the single most important ‘environment’ in the lives of her children. Like Mary, like the Church, she is an atmosphere. She is an atmosphere of affection. This is not just warm, fuzzy feelings, but […]

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Three-Dimensional Transcendentals

Benedictine College hosted a Symposium for Advancing the New Evangelization in 2014. The theme was Transcendentals as Preambles to Faith, and I got to propose my take on that as a paper. Anyone who knows me could probably have bet good money I’d do something ‘three dimensional’ with that, and they’d have won those bets. […]

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A Prayer, A Poem, A Person, A Place

I once got a chance to do an all-day retreat with one of the sister Apostles of the Interior Life. Naturally, I wanted to discuss the role of leisure in the formation of persons! As usual, I prayed about the upcoming event, and God brought together several threads of my contemplation to weave this talk. […]

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Living Poems

Did you know YOU are a poem? Check out Ephesians 2:10, where the Greek ‘poema’ is usually translated ‘workmanship’. I like ‘poema’ better, as it implies beauty and artistry, but ‘workmanship’ is nice. I’ve discussed the importance of poetry, poetic education, poetic imagination and poetic reading in many different venues (many of the talk topics […]

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